When you head out to do grocery shopping, run errands, or travel for a business trip does your significant other ever have second thoughts about what you are actually doing?


Does he or she ever go through your emails or text messages? If you are in a good relationship currently, your answer to these questions is probably “no.” It is great, and it is important to preserve this treasure called trust, on both ends of the relationship.

Being trustworthy is something we take for granted, until we do something to lose that trust. We do not realize what a great feeling it is to be able to have our partners’ full trust and support in everything we do. We do not feel the need to verify our day’s events, or surrender emails to our significant others. We can go about our day normally knowing that our significant other trusts us. We do not realize how important this trustworthiness is to the relationship until it is lost.

As stated many a time before, trust is easily lost, and difficulty gained. Once a person does something dishonest or hurts another person, the significant other’s trust may never return to its former level. Not only does this hurt the relationship, but it also affects you.

In order to regain that trust you will have to modify all of your activities so that they can be seen as undoubtedly honest in the other’s sight. It is a painful, tedious process for both parties. The one who lost the other’s trust will be forever proving him-/herself, and the other will be irreparably scarred. No matter how much better the situation may get, there will always be remnants of the pain present.

Instead of living normally from day to day, be proactive by always being considerate of your significant other. Check in with him or her from time to time. Give them prior notice if you must meet someone of the opposite sex in a private place. See how they feel about anything that may possibly come into question later.

If there is anything that you would find suspicious were you in there position, bring it to their attention. They will appreciate the gesture, and it will establish that no secrets are kept between you two. This way, trust is never lost. They will always be able to give you the benefit of the doubt. The relationship will be a happy and long one.

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Step 1-Schedule time together

This time must be regular, like at least once a week, and there should be no excuses for failing to make it.


Work, guys nights out, girls nights out, sport and all these other things have an important place to play in both your lives.

But if you want to fix a broken relationship, then you will need to work at it..and with sufficient committment that when you commit to quiet time between just the two of you that you both fulfill the agreement.

Step 2-Go on Dates

Organise regular dates, just like the old days, with some time apart before the date to create a frisson of excitement like the old days.

Step 3-Prioritize

If you want to fix a broken relationship you will both need to recognize the problem and commit to finding a solution..no matter how busy work is or any other distraction. You need to see putting your relationship back on track as the number 1 priority in your lives for now. Because if you don’t the pattern of behaviour which has led to the fracture will become habit and reinforced and become even more difficult to change.

Step 4-Forgive

You will need to forgive your partner’s failings when he/she is prepared to recognize them and commits to rectifying the situation. Carrying a grudge is a lonely job and will not help your relationship. This is not a one way street and hopefully your partner will take the same attitude and recognize that “hey I am not perfect, but I am sorry”.

Step 5-Recognize the differences between men and women

and celebrate them..don’t let them be a barrier to a loving relationship with someone who was your best friend not so many years ago.

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For better or for worse, right? The immortal words that ring in our ears when things aren’t going so great, when our marriage suddenly isn’t all roses and sunshine and the person we married doesn’t seem the same.


To have and to hold, for better or for worse can prove to be difficult promises to live up to.

Marital difficulties are fraught with danger for the long term relationship.

There is no clear cut version of advice that can be found. This isn’t like building a shed, or curing a cold. There are no old wives tales or free blueprints available to help you through the hard times. It’s up to you.

But you can give yourself the best chance of success by following these 3 keys.

1. You Have to Try

It’s all about effort. You will get what you put in. Moping around, avoiding your other half, complaining about how it’s not the same, will get you nothing but more hassle and a crumbling marriage around you.

2. Communicate

At times like this, it’s all about communication. A problem that you know is better than one you don’t.

Marriage is not all about self-sacrifice. Just because you get married doesn’t mean you have to lose yourself.

Some people can find that they lose the essence of themselves when they get married, as they are more wrapped up in the idea of being part of a whole.

This can lead to resentment, and once this builds up, it takes a lot to let go of it. You need to be able to trust your spouse, to communicate with them, to let them know that you’re not happy.

You have to want to save this marriage. If you show no effort, no real interest in how it turns out, your spouse will see that too, and things will fall.

At the end of the day, in the harsh light of reality, marriage is a contract that you have to work at.

You took vows, you made a promise, and now, when the going gets tough, it’s your time to show you real commitment to it. For better or for worse.

3. Acquire the necessary skills

Give yourself your best chance of doing so by arming yourself with some basic tools and skills..that can be easily acquired.

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Some will say that the best way to save a marriage is to simply talk with your spouse and work out your differences; to straighten out the kinks that have formed over time.


However, anyone in a failing marriage will say that this is easier said than done, and is more likely to get you wound up and frustrated than on the road to recovery.

It is definitely easier to let a marriage end than to try and save it so for your determination to save it .. I commend you.

If you’re looking for help, you’re acknowledging there’s a problem, and making the conscious decision to try and fix it.

Recognition of a problem is the first step.

Although I have said that just talking with your spouse won’t fix you marriage, it goes without saying that a marriage is built on trust and communication. There are many scenarios where the trust in one spouse has been lost, for whatever reason.

In these cases, talking it out is crucial. You need to know where the problem lies, where the differences in opinion arise. It’s better to know what you’re up against than to stumble in blindly to a very delicate situation.

Anger, frustration and confusion are all very normal, natural feelings to have when you feel that your trust has been lost, or when in fact it is you in which the trust has been lost.

It helps no-one to bottle up what we are feeling, as things get lost in translation and small problems or niggling worries turn into much more hassle.

Sometimes, this will be difficult. In every situation, there is a partner who feels let down, abandoned, used, whatever it may be, and communication is not as easily maintained.

At this stage, outside help is required, as this is obviously a much bigger problem than two irate, angry and hurt people can deal with objectively.

This is not a sign of weakness, it is a show of determination that you are in it for the long haul, that you really want to save your marriage. It’s all about effort. For better or for worse. If you don’t try, then you won’t succeed.

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The first step on the road to repairing a broken marriage, or relationship, is to be totally honest with each other and recognise that there is a problem.


This problem and breakdown in your relationship will not be addressed by failing to tackle it head on. And this means communication.

Key 1-Honesty

The first step on the road to repairing a broken marriage, or relationship, is to be totally honest with each other and recognise that there is a problem.

This problem and breakdown in your relationship will not be addressed by failing to tackle it head on. And this means communication.

Both of you will need to communicate openly, honestly and freely in order to thrash out the major underlying reason for the breakdown in the relationship.

You will need to address the key points that are a problem for you in your relationship..but you will also need to listen to your partner. And recognise their needs and what they perceive to be problems.

Key 2 -Communicate

Your whole method of communicating can be a major stumbling block in a relationship. The way you communicate after being together for many years can become abrupt and closed.

Unlike the way you used to communicate when you first met and never got fed up of just talking to one another.

Both you and your partner will need to put time aside every day no matter how hectic the schedules are to rediscover your ability to communicate like you used to.

Key 3-Respect

You need to respect your partner’s worldview, although you may not always agree. You will also need to respect the difference between a man and a woman and the huge difference in interests between the sexes.

You should celebrate and embrace this difference rather than letting it stay as an impediment in your relationship.

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In this post I give you 3 keys to saving your marriage..whether it is troubled by depression, addiction or if simply, and more often, the thrill has gone. It does not have to be like that.


Key no. 1- Don’t sweat the small stuff

The little things, the little issues, are only symptoms of a bigger problem. You must address the underlying cause of these symptoms and see the bigger picture.

Remember when you first met? The little things were not a problem then..and they should not be now either. If you address the fundamental thing that is gone wrong in your relationship.

Key no. 2- Understand your expectations in your marriage

You must have a good understanding of marriage as not being a fairytale as you are led to believe as a little boy or girl. You must recognise that we are all imperfect human beings and that it is fine to be imperfect..and it is also fine for your partner to be imperfect also.

Key no. 3- Recognise the difference between men and women

You know that book “Men are from Venus, women are from Mars”?
Men and women are intrinsically different and this difference leading to different outlooks and interests sometimes should not be castigated or criticized.

Rather the difference should be embraces and celebrated.

Remember that there are 3 sides to every story..yours, his/hers and the truth.

To make your marriage work, and you will have to work at it, you need to equip yourself with the knowledge and the tools to understand one another.

You will need to embrace the differences between you and see the big picture, the reason why you came together in the first place. And the reason why you want to stay together into the future.

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